Today I attend one of my close friend's wedding. Matol.
It's an awesome wedding.
It's an awesome wedding.
it's full house, good music, good food, good atmosphere.
White flowery blend with purple theme, I guess.
White flowery blend with purple theme, I guess.
At time, I have this 'touching moment' when I meet him on wedding stage.
Me. Bride. "Enjoy ur wedding life dear".
Shake hand, hug and kiss her cheeks
Me. Groom. "Congrats for u tol. Be happy always". Shake hand. He says "Come, for the very last time give me cheeks kiss". Then he hugs me with one hand and i kiss his cheeks. I feel appreciated for our friendship.
I'm sad and happy at the same time.
Sad as i'll miss our friendship single time. all that things.
Things will change. From now on, he has to focus on his family which is understandable for married couple.
Happy as he makes a good big step in his life. He finds his one.
And when I see their prewed pics or pre-ceremony video in the ballroom, I feel touched. So much.
Happy as he makes a good big step in his life. He finds his one.
And when I see their prewed pics or pre-ceremony video in the ballroom, I feel touched. So much.
This is the first time i attend my close friend's wedding.
So this is how it feels...
Attending his wedding makes me recalling our high school memories.
We both were in the same class, first year.
We knew each other since then.
He often moved to sit beside me in class just to joke around me.
Most of the time, it spent with finding my minus like I'm fat, chubby, my fingers are short...etc
He said my face-shape looks like mango.
There was my birthday, he&friends gave me a 'fruit package' consists of mango, watermelon, melon. It was so heavy, I almost left it. In the end, he was the one who carried it for me.
We had happy time together. We laughed so much. We shared stories everyday. We were close to each other.
He had feelings. I didn't.
I lost him for sometime.
I understood that he needed distance. He hurted by me yet nothing I could do.
Few years later.
We were already in university, suddenly we had a good time back chatting each other. We shared our life so far.
And we also had an open conversation about what he and I felt before.
I had a sincere apologize to him.
Ever since then, we are close to each other again.
Our friendship has been grown to another step. Even it's between man and woman, we know each other limit and we respect it.
Most of our hi-school friends are surprised that we still have a good relationship until now.
Even we openly talk and joke about
"I refuse to be his girlfriend that time..I don't like him"
"Haha..do regret not to be with me"
Then we laugh. We're okay with it.
We don't meet all the time, maybe only like once a year. He has his own business, same for me.
But we always keep in touch, and that matters.
That's friendship.
He is a good guy. One of good guys I've known.
That's friendship.
He is a good guy. One of good guys I've known.
I love him as my dear friend.
Sincerely wishes.
Matol, congrats!
Wait til I find my one and let u have that 'touching moment' on my wedding stage. haha..
Happily ever after dear! Have a lot of children and build a great family.
U'll be a good husband and daddy for sure :):)
Cheers for u both!
Sincerely wishes.
Matol, congrats!
Wait til I find my one and let u have that 'touching moment' on my wedding stage. haha..
Happily ever after dear! Have a lot of children and build a great family.
U'll be a good husband and daddy for sure :):)
Cheers for u both!
Hugs, Ulen
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