Oct 28, 2011

Through Merry Riana

Here I am writing about someone whom I salute.
Not only for her achievement, but also her survival to stand strong-change life-success her dreams.
Happened when I felt down, so much, I tried to find an enterpreneur community or anything that could make me feel better.
I am an extrovert person. I need to share my life, my problems.
I got suggestion from my sister to learn from Merry Riana. A girl who made her first million dollars at age 26.
Therefore I'm curious. I did open her blog, followed her twitter and finally read her books. 

A gift from a friend and Mimpi Sejuta Dollar (A Million Dollar Dream), by Merry Riana
So let me share my interpretation for what I've read and learnt from her...

 
Dare to dream BIG.
Whatever u dream on, do it persistently. It always has a result, for sure.
Have a never ending spirit, commitment, hard work, discipline, hope, faith, love to make a change in ur life.
We have a bigger energy inside more than we thought. And using that energy to realize what we want is impossible POSSIBLE.
There are times we will fail, so many times. We feel down. We lose hope.
And that's the part of the journey that we should learn of. Not to regret of. Not to be focus on.

"The darkest night is eventually the sign that the sun will shine"
The hardest time of our life is eventually the sign that we're moving closer to our dreams.
So hang on. Keep moving, on a right track, with purpose, with target.
Everythings happens for a reason.
A good reason.


Most of succesful person, born in a hard way. 
They fight, they change their life.
The essence of success is when u rip what u sow, when u can feel the results of ur hard work, ur sweats and ur tears, when u fight for ur dream. 

Not only by inherit it or easily having it.
By having such difficulties, we'll push out our deepest power to survive. Not only to survive, but also to think on a greater way.
Grateful for all the hardness that life gives us. Without it, u won't get this shape. Strong. Firm. Outstanding.
Grateful for all the sadness that life gives us.
Without tears, we won't appreciate happiness.
Grateful for all the lacking that life gives us.
With it, we can fill it with what we want, how we want it to be filled. We'll try harder than others.


Success doesn't always mean u have a smooth path of fighting.

It's full of storms and we should welcome fails. Learn from fails, get a new strategic and do it better. A real fighter will win the war.
Success doesn't always start by having everything (capital, network, knowledge). 

It start by braveness, only. And it borns by ourself, no one could ever give it to you.
Success doesn't always come to old people. 

It's possible for young people.
Success doesn't always mean u'll have all the supports from all the people surround u to do it. 

Follow ur heart and ur dreams.
Success means u don't do what commons do, u do what u think u have to do. 

Most of it will oppose the stream.
Success comes for those who dare to work hard, harder than she/he could imagine. 

To those who never give up even life kicks u to ur lowest down, those who try to think positively and put a smile after crying on a bad day.
Success comes for those who dare to start from below. 

Never think of the limit what they should or shouldn't have with their degree, their title.

Life is not all about money. It is.

Life is also about health, love, happiness.
But money is needed to improve the quality of our life.
We can use money to improve our health. Choosing a healthy food, paying personal trainer, go to gym.
We can use money to get the best doctor in best hospital.
We can use money to improve our happiness to our beloved one by buying good things, happying them.

So money can and can't buy happiness.
It depends on how we utilize it.
"Somehow, it's more comfortable crying inside Mercedes Benz than by the side of the road"

We can always make our dreams come true.

When we dare to dream, BiG.

 

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I have started something.
Something new that most of the time have drown me with down feeling.
I met problems. I met tough times.
I felt like I'm failed.
I was totally down. I was in doubt for what I've done so far.
But universe give me a little light.
Give me back my vision.
Give me back my motivation.
Give me back my faith. Through her.

Now, i can say...

I'm doing right, I'm on the right track.
I'm back on fighting.
It's never gonna be easy. But I had gone through those hardness before, I can always go through the next hardness as well.
Now I realise, I should've named it "a part which bring me closer to my dreams".
I should proud of it.
I should keep believing on me.

I'm not alone.

I'm one of thousand fighter who's doing their dreams.
My fails, here and there, are not a good excuse to lose my hope. My dreams.
All the hardness, sadness, lacking of my life has been with me so far. They are my loyal friends. They taught me much.
And now I can be grateful for whatever it was.
For all tears.
For all problems that kicked me down so low.
For all those people who doubted me.
They shaped me to be what I am today.
They shaped me to be a fighter, not a loser.

"Giving up is much easier, but that's not my way"

And I am definitely IN.

I will be successful with my dreams!


*and one great thing happens right after I feel back the excitement of doing my dreams. I'm gonna meet her. 27th oct 2011, her book launching at PS. Exclusively invited. I'm GOOD :D*

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